for two friends who actually want to catch up

Deep questions to ask a good friend

Not “how's work.” Real catching up. These six questions are for two friends who actually want to know how the other one is doing. Warm, real, not therapy, just good conversation.

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  1. 1

    What's been taking up the most space in your head lately?

    You don't have to have it figured out. Just say it.

  2. 2

    Is there something you've been going through that you haven't really talked about with anyone?

    You don't have to share everything. But you can.

  3. 3

    What's something good that's happened recently that you haven't properly celebrated?

    Celebrate it now.

  4. 4

    Have you changed in any way this year that you've noticed?

    Even a small shift counts.

  5. 5

    Is there something about our friendship you've wanted to say and haven't?

    This is the moment.

  6. 6

    What do you need right now, and are you getting it?

    An honest answer here is a gift to yourself.

how to use these

Find a moment without screens or hurry. Take turns, one question at a time, and let the silences happen, they're usually where the good part is. If a question doesn't fit tonight, skip it. There's no score and no finish line.

Prefer something a little more guided? The interactive flip cards show one question at a time, with a gentle nudge on the back of each card. The focus room is a quiet, distraction-free version for going deep.

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